Loving Offense

"Those who love an offense, love a quarrel . Those who build high doorways bring a collapse." Proverbs 17:19 Wives! Are we subconciously making the choice to love offense more than we love our spouse? Are we making our pride, and our arrogance more important than our husbands? Does the reckless entitlement we we choose to have in defense of our offense worth the cost? Is it worth the destruction that the Bible warns us about?